Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Sunday, March 23, 2014

An Unexpected End and Unexpected Friend

The death of Ashoke was very surprising to me, but even more surprising was the way that Gogol responded to it. Ashoke's death begins with stomach pains that seem like they would call for a visit to the local walk in rather than the hospital. I believe that Lahiri made the illness a sudden heart attack purposely so that Gogol could not go see him in time. Even if he could go back, I do not know if Gogol would have. He loved his father, but he may have played it off. When his sister, Sonia, finally told him that his father died, he aborted all else and made the trip to have his father buried. One of the defining moments of Gogol's final break from his Bengali culture is that he did not shave his head in deference to his father. 

However much Gogol wants to leave his Bengali culture behind, it always comes back to him again in one form or another. This time, Moushumi was the one to deliver it. Gogol realizes that this is just another Bengali girl, but he is interested after a date or two. The amazing part is, because he has blocked out his culture and the parties that came with it, he did not even realize that Moushumi was the girl in the corner who only read. Looking back with his new "refined" tastes, this quiet, studious girl might have been more attractive to him. His hatred for all of the partying and yelling with food in one's mouth is not present with Moushumi. I cannot wait to see how Gogol deflects his Bengali culture after chapter eight.

Monday, March 17, 2014

Big changes for Nikhil

The Namesake has changed greatly from chapter one to where I am now, at the end of chapter six. Nikhil has changed greatly as a character as well. In his time at Yale and Columbia, he began to move even further from his parents. He decided to mostly avoid The Bengali culture that he grew up with. He hated the large dinner parties with huge families and annoying kids. Most of all, he hated how his mom made obscene amounts of food for the whole party and never catered to her guests. He is disgusted that his mom eats with her mouth open most of the time. 

Aside from disliking the Bengali culture, he in fact loved the American culture and the mixtures of European heritage and influence. He enjoys the diverse architecture that he sees in New York City and other cities outside of Boston. He might like these different designs solely because of his parent's hatred for them. Many of his decisions are for the same reason, for example him changing his name instead of leaving it as Gogol. Also the complete Americanization of his whole life, for instance his English accent and when his parents speak to him in Bengali, "he waves and drives off, pretending not to hear" (150). Even his girlfriend, Maxine, cannot believe that he is related to his parents. The interesting thing is that he is happy with that, and he is glad to be disconnected from his parents. 


Throughout chapter six, Nikhil seems to be doing pretty well. He has a girlfriend that he loves and her parents seem pretty awesome. He has been at a lake house and has had one of the best times of his life. He loves the lifestyle that the Ratliffs live, but he is harshly reminded of what awaits him at home when he encounters one of the Ratliffs neighbors who tries to ask "at what age he moved from America to India" (157). She even believes that "the climate wouldn't effect [him], given [his] heritage" (157). He is offended by her upfront nature, but keeps his cool and escapes her sharp questions. Nikhil has endured a lot of pressure, but it seems so far that he is being repaid with a new pseudo-adopted family and separation from his parents.



Sunday, October 6, 2013

My First Look at King Claudius

King Claudius is a man of ambition and personal power, but only in the presence of open opportunity. The king has swooped into Hamlet’s life and replaced his father in almost every way. He managed to take advantage of his own brother’s death, and use it to improve his own life. Frankly, it is sick how quickly King Claudius, along with Hamlet’s mother, moved on from the death of the king.
            So far, King Claudius strikes me as the kind of ruler who is very self-motivated. This self-motivation usually drives a character with passion and they take risks that have a great reward. Claudius will do anything if it means he will extend his rule. Already, Claudius has manipulated his only competitor, Hamlet, and made him an immediate family member
            Although Claudius is harsh to Hamlet, he has proven smart and calculating when it comes to the security of his rule. Claudius knows that Hamlet will want to rule the kingdom, so he does all he can to make sure Hamlet cannot claim the kingdom. Claudius takes the idiom, “keep your friends close, and your enemies closer”, very literally. Rather than banishing Hamlet, where he could start a rebellion of some sort, he keeps Hamlet right where he can control and monitor his movements. Also, by keeping Hamlet trapped inside of his kingdom and marrying Hamlet’s mother, he is breaking Hamlet’s will and asserting his dominance over Hamlet.

            King Claudius also tries to control Hamlet by urging him to let go of his father’s death. He is bothered that Hamlet will not, “Cast thy nighted color off” (1.2.70). His dark clothing stand as a symbol for Hamlet’s mourning for his father, and if he lets those go, Claudius is one step closer to demoralizing his greatest competition. Claudius creates another close connection to the family by marrying Hamlet’s mother. If one leaves the mother’s odd choice out of the situation to remarry so quickly, it is obvious that Claudius is trying to justify his rights to the kingdom, and to show Hamlet that he can really do anything he pleases, including marry his mother.